14 Surprising Ways to Shock Him and Yourself for the Good of You Both. How to get relief from the pain and get your marriage back too.

You can put everything right again but only if you do things very, very differently than you’ve been doing them.

Everything I’m going to suggest will sound counterintuitive. But these radical measures are what I’ve seen breathe new life into broken marriages for thousands of women in your distressing situation—and what I did to revitalize my own broken marriage.

Here’s exactly how to recover the good you had with your husband in the very beginning:

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4 Simple Ways to Stop Begging and Restore Your Magnetism

When I was at the lowest point in my marriage–feeling completely dejected and lonely because my husband was not affectionate–I kept reading advice from experts who insisted that the solution was to say, “I have a serious concern about your lack of affection.”

The underlying premise of this advice is that my husband just did not know that I liked affection. Or maybe he didn’t realize that he did not show affection. He just somehow…forgot.

But telling him to be more affectionate never works, as I’m sure you already know from trying it yourself. If anything, that drove my husband farther away. Sometimes he’d leave tire marks in the driveway.

It wasn’t until I learned the 4 simple concepts below that I stopped feeling the urge to ask why my husband wouldn’t show affection.

That’s because the smooching, the pats on the butt, and the fireworks in the bedroom came back.

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When your husband actually says the words, “I don’t love you,” the hurt comes in waves.

First, there’s shock and bewilderment. Your mind races with questions. How did this happen? How long has he felt this way?

Then there’s terror. What does this mean for our future? For our marriage? For our kids?

Then there’s deep, deep hurt. He doesn’t love you. Does it mean you’re unlovable? Making that immense pain stop becomes your imperative.

You feel the urge to protect yourself with aloofness or insults. It’s just human nature. Flinging some hurtful arrows his way seems not only justified, but necessary.

But the words, “I don’t love you,” can be the breakdown before the breakthrough. They can be the gateway to a marriage that exceeds your imagination, where you feel as loved and connected as you did when you were first dating. And you can have all of that with the guy who just said he didn’t love you, or is acting like he doesn’t.

Here are 3 secrets for getting from here to there:

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Whether or not you’ve read her books, this collection of Laura’s podcasts for wives will help you internalize and adopt the habits that have helped so many women have relationships that are more fulfilling, pleasurable and relaxed. Listening to Laura’s reassuring voice in your ear will help you gain confidence and courage to make the choices that lead to lifelong romance.

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This controversial approach to dating has given thousands of single women everything they need to attract romance, intimacy, and a marriage proposal – while answering the question, “Where are all the good men?”

A Surrendered Single doesn’t have to look for Mr. Right – she attracts him.

In her popular workshops, Laura Doyle has taught thousands of accomplished women the principles of The Surrendered Single. They are simple: when you try to control who asks you out, when a man will call, or corner him into a commitment, you drive him away. When you let him woo you instead, tenderness and romance appear. You enjoy the pleasure of being pursued. You feel confident, feminine, and dignified. Dating becomes fun again. Marriage follows. You stop going it alone.

Practical and compassionate, The Surrendered Singleis a step-by-step
guide that teaches women how to:

• Ask men to ask you out so that you always have a date
• Avoid the remorse of, “I wish I hadn’t said…”
• Judge a man’s character in 30 days or less
• Become your best self and attract a man at your level

Whether you’re recovering from a breakup or divorce, already on
the dating scene or wanting to take your current romance to the
next level, The Surrendered Singlewill show you how to have the
relationship you’ve always dreamed of…

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Many women feel hopeless when their relationships start to falter, but with help, they can get back on track. Laura has made it her life’s work to “end world divorce” and empower women to find intimacy in their relationships. Her Six Intimacy Skills teach women the tools they need to reconnect with their partners, with or without their spouse’s conscious efforts.

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